De-coupling

2012-01-08T13:33:00.006+08:00

A lady and her baggage
Every adult comes with his or her own baggage. It can be anything from physical to emotional, she could have a bad history of flinging around, or even have conceived a kid. It really takes alot of effort to commit into a relationship nowadays.
Being part of the aging Gen-Y kids, we have our own share of Gen-y problems growing up. I guess thats the price tag for promoting the liberal culture. But hey, it's a good thing right? I mean this kind of problem only happens to the more developed and affluent countries... Would u rather fret over putting food on ur table or worry about the meaning of life? lol..
So how does a guy commit to a relationship?

"A chicken was involved in producing the egg, but the cow has commited by dying to put beef on the table."

I believe that every successful relationship involves commitment. But how does one commit with so many social problems hard-wired fundamentally into us?

Im enjoying the care-free single life. But memories of ex-girlfriends pouring her sorrows still haunts me. When u have a girlfriend it's

1. Problems X2
2. Expenses X2
3. Net Worth /2
4. Time /2

So at the age of 23, im finding lesser and lesser reasons to commit. U could be dating for 1 year, giving ur full commitment but than suddenly she throws u a baggage and the whole relationship could blow up straight in ur face.
In the rhetorics of the "Cow," us dudes have already sliced the "prime rib eye" meat off, just to have it thrown to the dustbin.

Having said that really puts me in a "The Glass Is Half Empty" position. A pessimist? Or am i a pragmatic realist? hmm~ u decide... My persona is but a figment of ur perception, a cloud of ideas formulated by ur history of experience and exposure to me. Boo yeah?

Heres a thought!

De-coupling